Happy Nurse's Day to my fellow nurses out there!!
As a nurse, I meet a lot of people. Most of these people I care
for a day or two, and they go on their way. Some people are frequent
flyers, and I see them a few times during multiple stays. I've been at
the hospital long enough that I now recognize names of people in our
census - I recently took care of the family of a patient I had in the
fall, before she passed away. There's a certain continuity to this,
knowing people who come back, whether as patients or family members.
Our hospital does a great job of involving families in the process, and
there are some that you come to know pretty well.
It
always amazes me the trust that people will offer up to those in scrubs
or a white coat who walk into their hospital room. I try to get people
to talk, and to really talk about anything. Many of the patients who
come to our floor are struggling with major surgeries, cancer diagnoses,
or other long term illnesses. Patients can't heal until they are
comfortable, and in most cases they aren't comfortable until they can
relax and let their guard down. This usually means talking - talking
about their kids, their grandkids, their dogs (one of my favorite
topics!), their favorite TV shows, places to vacation or shop, what they
like to eat. I played a game with one patient the other day where we
named the state capitals. It doesn't really matter, as long as it
breaks through the tension and pain and lets them relax.
Many
of our surgical patients need to tolerate solid food before they're
allowed to go home, and sometimes this is a struggle for someone with no
appetite. I had a patient like this a few weeks ago; he had just had
surgery and the surgeons wouldn't clear him to leave until he had eaten
and they were sure his digestive system was working correctly. I told him he needed to trust his body to work properly and to start slow, maybe with some soup.
We talked a lot about food that day. What he liked to eat, what he
didn't like to eat, what he would eat when he got home. He told me that
he loved to cook, that it was something he enjoyed and loved to share
with his family. I told him that I was relatively new to cooking, but
that I was learning to enjoy it as well. At the end of my shift, I went
into his room to check on him one last time. He gave me this
handwritten recipe for soup, one that his family had been making for
generations. He was entrusting it to me, to enjoy with my family.